A quick guide to the fun

A little chance. A lot of together.

Every envelope contains a date idea. The biggest prize is making a memory together.
Step 1

Choose the possibilities

Choose 4–24 envelopes, then hand-pick dates across Low, Medium, and High tiers, or generate a random board using your vibe, budget, and setting.
Step 2

Pick an envelope to keep

Choose a numbered envelope. Its date stays hidden, and it cannot be eliminated while you open the others.
Step 3

Open a little mystery

Open other envelopes in rounds. Each revealed date leaves the board. The prize list shows what is still possible, without revealing the envelope numbers.
Step 4

Deal, or keep dreaming?

Between rounds, the host offers a date still on your board. Deal makes it your date. No Deal keeps every surviving date in play.
Step 5

Make the final choice

When two envelopes remain, keep yours or swap while both are closed. Then discover your winning date and the other possibility.
Fair surprises, thoughtful prizes
Envelopes are shuffled fairly once at the start and never secretly rearranged. You decide which dates belong in the Low, Medium, and High prize tiers. Cost is shown separately with £ signs. Any date on your board can win; random boards suggest balanced tiers you can swap before playing.
Your game and ideas save on this device. You can leave and return to the exact same game.
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